Relations Simplified

Relationship, a topic on which you can have a never ending debate without reaching to any conclusion. Why ? Well, cause we all are different and our thoughts, beliefs and perspective to look at things are different as well. But unlike other topics, where we can choose to disagree and still be cool with each other. When it comes to relationship two person needs a better understanding to not just choose to disagree and be cool about it but also to understand the other's perspective in order to cherish the bond that they share.

                             Now, I'm definitely not a relationship expert. Even you know what I believe, that I must be the last person to take advice from, on this topic specifically. As I don't have a great history when it comes to relationship. But as they say, your mistakes give you experiences and every bad experience teach you lesson.

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                            So, what I'm going to do here is I'm going to mention a few things that you might already know or may be read somewhere. Like, you know, few years back, in the past, there was something that you used to consider every time while taking even a very tiniest decision in your life but then you get so busy that you forgot about it. But that thing always stayed with you somewhere in your subconscious mind. And so, all that I'm going to do is to bring that back to your consciousness. Rest is up to you, if you like it, apply it. If don't, let it be. Alright, so here we go...

• The Perfect Couple :
  

There is noting in this world as perfect couple. If you two are enjoying each other's company, respect and understand each other, then you are a perfect couple. 'Cause no matter how perfect you two think you are, people are always going to talk bullshit about you guys. Like, she could do better or he is so smart why would he settle with this girl and all that kind of stuff. And these things are often told by someone you know and that hurts. So what you do is you try to change your partner's habbits or behaviour or the way they carry themselves and so on and then it's just a matter of time when it gets ugly. So, don't listen to people. If you two know each other well, and believe that you two can celebrate each other's company for life time then block those negative thoughts and those people, if you can.

• The Perfect Meeting :
  

Just like perfect couple there is no perfect way to meet them. There is never going to be a day when the sky will be perfectly sky-blue in color, the light sun rays will make the water droplets on the grass shine and from that perfect green mountain a boy in a cowboy dress will come towards you on a horse, take you with him for forever. (went a little too far with my imagination, I guess) And if you are boy, well you don't have that many fantasies but still. There is never going to be a day when a girl will approach you and you'll understand her signs. You never will. 'Cause 60 percent of the time it's a girl who approaches you, you just don't get it.(will talk about it some other day) So, yeah keep those fantasies to live with them, to plan it and then celebrate it. "The most amazing things happen when you least expect them."

• The One and Only :

There is nothing like the one and only. Everyone whom you'll meet in this whole life is going to hurt you, one way or the other. The only difference that's going to be is, some will hurt you real bad in the beginning and then treat you better as they realize their mistake and some will treat you like a princess and then will hurt you real bad. No matter, who they are, there will be days when they won't understand you, when they'll go too far, beyond their own boundaries just to make you do something that they want. And that's where you need to understand, that not all days are the best days. May be they are going through some stuff. May be they were trying to make you understand something but you never realized. May be the problems that they are going through are not seem that big for you, but you need to understand that it might be, for them.

                          I know, all these things are going to hurt you but that's when you need to understand the other person's perspective. And even if you're not that mature to understand all of this, here is something even simpler to understand. One, you will never go into a relationship with a person who always agrees with you. You never will. Second, no matter who they are, they'll hurt you and you need to decide that with whom you can fight, listen to their arguments, fight back with them, get angry or get scolded and still be together. Because listen, "If you are lucky enough to find someone whom you can tolerate half way through, then you stick your nails to it and don't let them go."

There are still a lot of points left to write about but I believe that this article is already long enough so will continue the points in the next one. Also, thanks for always investing your time in my blog. I really hope that I'm adding a little value in your life. And as always, do let me know what you think and have a good one. :)